Articles and blog posts
Leave Your World Behind
August 31st, 2026
Kalari Rasayana - Leave Your World Here
When everyone else was turning Ayurveda into a spa experience, Jose Dominic, MD of CGH Earth, did something radical - he went back to the beginning. Not to sell wellness, but to preserve a science that was f[...]
Sing Like You Don't Care
August 29th, 2026
Every year, I go to the Edinburgh Fringe and immerse myself in storytelling, hoping to get better at my craft. This year’s biggest lesson came from an unexpected source.
In a science lecture room, a Madonna tribute act was singing and dancing he[...]
The Sleeping Man
June 26th, 2026
In the middle of a keynote, I spotted a man sleeping in the front row. Not nodding off but fully committed and unapologetically asleep.
I spent the rest of that talk trying not to focus on him, which made me focus on him more, ignoring the hundre[...]
Speaking in Parliament
October 25th, 2025
I had the privilege of speaking in Parliament alongside remarkable women whose journeys continue to reshape what leadership looks like.
My message: at any point in your journey, you can decide to rewrite your story. You are never finished beco[...]
Patterns In Our Lives
July 27th, 2025
From Unravelling - My thoughts on patterns in our lives:
Everything in life has a pattern - our own lives are filled with patterns.Patterns give us a feeling of familiarity and safety, even when they are wrong for us.
Perhaps we repeat the[...]
Unravelling Shortlisted as Indendependent Book of the Year!
March 11th, 2025
Unravelling Shortlisted as Independent Book of the Year!
No blonde alter-ego publicist this time—just me, feeling incredibly proud (for so many reasons) to share that Unravelling has been shortlisted for The UK Selfie Book Awards 2025 for Best Inde[...]
Good thing, bad thing, we don't know...
September 6th, 2024
21 days to launch and behind the glossy photo things have been going wrong. The first advance copies of Unravelling arrived and whilst checking through them, I found a book with the first seven pages missing. You couldn’t make this up…
Twenty[...]
"Your heart is broken, long before it's broken."
August 26th, 2024
"Your heart is broken, long before it's broken."
"Your heart is broken, long before it's broken." I wanted to explore how emotional wounds begin long before the cause of the actual wounds take place. That, sometimes, we are in anticipation of this [...]
Unravelling is here...
August 16th, 2024
Unravelling is here...
🚀 A double life, a blonde alter-ego, signing a three-book deal, blonde alter-ego being shortlisted as publicist of the year! Turning down a fourth book deal to do this myself as myself. The first copies of Unravel[...]
Doors Can Be Knocked Down ....
August 7th, 2024
I spoke at Amazon yesterday. Sharing my story of rejection, putting on a suit and pretending to go to work, the book deal I gave myself, my blonde alter-ego alias, signing a "real" 3 book deal with HarperCollins, booking a theatre and putting o[...]
A double life, a blonde alter-ego, and a three-book deal. Sharing my story for South Asian Heritage Month #freetobeme
July 18th, 2024
My journey:
* As a kid, desperate to be blonde, I shaved off my black bushy eyebrows, coloured them in with a yellow marker, and went to school. Miss Davies, my teacher, was horrified and told me that I would go far in life by just being myself. [...]
South Asian History Month
June 18th, 2024
Loving this year’s South Asian Heritage Month theme, ‘Free to Be Me’. The irony isn’t lost on me, given my own journey of setting up a double life and creating a blonde alter-ego alias publicist to follow my dreams.
- My first novel was rejec[...]
It's Never Too Late....
March 29th, 2024
It was my midlife crisis... Having never acted before (not even at school), I booked a theatre in Covent Garden, rehearsed for 18 months, and put on a one woman show playing all 17 parts. I did this mostly to get over the fear that had secretly crept[...]
Following The Thread
March 21st, 2024
Yesterday, I asked myself why I continue to do things that make no sense to anyone else but me. I love it when questions that are posed by myself are answered by the universe. It answered the question this morning, via a poem by William Stafford:
T[...]
New Story - New Life
January 4th, 2024
I was jobless, putting on a suit and pretending to go to work every day. That suit routine, I’m ashamed to say lasted around 9 months or so until one day, I took out a piece of paper and wrote down my goals. They were as follows:
Bestselling a[...]